Psyche-Babble

I have been trying to work out, Why Chastity? Why Lingerie? Why do it?

I’ve been having some ups and downs recently where I really haven’t felt like messing about.  During this time I have been wondering why I bother.  It also seems so stupid and childish, but then again I am back in the mood now and am considering answering the questions.

I am going to make some sweeping generalizations here.  Please don’t comment just to say here is the exception, but I would welcome other peoples opinions on the subjects.

Most people involved in Chastity are men, Why is that?

On all the boards and chat rooms I frequent, most of the people that have involvement in chastity are men.  Either they are the ones suggesting or getting a belt for their woman, they are men who want the experience and persuade their woman to lock them up, or they are gay men.

I have a couple of ideas on this, the first is that men masturbating is considered socially bad.  This means that society puts the emphasis on men stopping what they are doing, hence the chastity craze, men that feel they shouldn’t possibly think that if they shouldn’t why should their woman.

Next there is the bondage aspect.  There are people out there who use this as part of a bondage routine, but once again there seem to be a lot more men looking for a woman to take the key to keep them locked, which in this context is at the very least topping from the bottom?

There are the “I don’t trust my spouse to not screw around” group.  If this is the only way to trust surely there are bigger issues?

In my case, I think I like the belt for 2 reasons, the first is the feeling of controlled, I know that a phone call and I could find out where the key is hidden, but the challenge is to not do that, the challenge to get as horny as possibly without relief, and they takes someone elses help.

The second reason is also about being controlled.  When we mess around in the bedroom (or anywhere else ) I generally get pushy, this is a very easy way for her to get pushy back and I can’t do any thing about it, except end the game, it takes some of the burden off her about how to get me to try something, and helps me remember to not be so pushy.

The other thought I am contemplating in sissyfication, or man wearing panties.

I find this so interesting too, Normally I wear briefs as my underwear of choice, but mens underwear is not very creative.  Shorts, Briefs, Thongs, that’s about it.

I can see the appeal of women wanting their men in something different, something slinkier.  I also find on boards and chat rooms that generally there are more women who start this with their men than vice versa.  Perhaps this is something that is socially acceptable?

If women are allowed to wear men’s clothes, why shouldn’t men wear womens underwear.  The problem comes with the mechanics, there is just no where to put your balls LOL.

So after this miandering waffle, as I sit here locked in the belt, with the body stocking locked on the inside of the belt…..

I think for me it is a reminder of playing, it is trying to get me worked up, it is foreplay.  If my wife decides she’d like to see me in lace panties for the day, that’s cool, it is good she wants to pay attention to my underwear .  By the time I get home from work I will be horny, she will be wanting to grope my ass and be ready to go, and there is a 50/50 chance that by the end of the day I will still be all over her, wanting out, as she lays there in her afterglow deciding if this would be a good way to spend tomorrow too.

I really would like to know what others think, so comments please?

Medical Science

I was never very good a biology when I was at school, even the organic Chemistry in my A-Level was a little beyond me, but antibiotics, pain killers and drugs actions I do not have a clue on.

When I had kidney stone surgery they gave me an antibiotic specifically for that region, it even made my pee glow.  How did it know to go there?  How did it know what to do?  How did the pain killer they give me only stop the pain there and not in my head?

The reason this comes to mind is I have a horrible cold.  Running nose, aching, tired, coughing up my lungs, can’t breath, you know the type.

They are fairly common symptoms, and are caused by another variation of a cold virus I would imagine, which makes it virtually impossible to immunize against or treat.

They symptoms (as I understand it) are my bodies way of fighting this virus.  Running nose to clear out the waste system.  Tired because my body is busy fighting.  But my question is…… Is this all necessary?

Does my body have to do all these things to beat the virus, or can medical science find a way to remove these symptoms from me so I do not have to suffer?

Instead of targeting the Thingy-itis virus, can’t I just take a pill that will stop my nose getting bunged up, stop my body aching, stop my lungs hurting and just leave my body’s immune system to fix it?

This cold has one more symptom, fortunately it effects other people rather than me, but I am really grumpy, and short tempered.  Is there a cure for that out there?

Large corporate monopolies

Customer service has evaporated from companies that hold any sort of monopoly.

I came to realise this in Liverpool Street station in London.

I had advanced booked 2 tickets from Liverpool Street station out to where I (thought I) needed to be. When I actually got to London I realised I needed to travel further. I went into the ticket office, handed them my confirmation print out and asked to upgrade the ticket.

I was told by the customer service guy that this ticket was for Malborough (No where near London) and I would have to buy the full ticket and dispute this with the booking agent. This took me back a bit and while I asked him to check the booking again his supervisor came out and told me this was my problem, buy the ticket. I asked if they had a contact number I could call since I booked through them, he swung the screen from the customer service rep round so hard it bounced off the partition between me and him and yelled “Your ticket is wrong, buy the f*ing ticket or get out of the ticket office”.

I took one look at the screen and saw they had mistyped my confirmation number. At this point the supervisor lost it, causing me to lose it, and the customer service rep joined in too. I just took my ticket and stormed out, and a very helpful conductor on the train helped me out.

All over the London transport system there are notices about how verbal abuse is still abuse. I don’t think the customer service supervisor got that memo though.

Normally with this level of service I would look into using and alternate providor, but if I want to get to where I am going I have to go through Liverpool Street station and have no choice but to use them. It just seems like now they are in, they just don’t care.

I wrote them a letter complaining.

On returning to the US I experienced the same thing, this time with the local Turnpike. I have an EZPass so I don’t have to stop for the tolls. As I came off the turnpike though someone cut me off and put me into EZPass lane that is for cash AND EZPass. I pull up and hand the guy the pass, he looked at it and said “This is out of state it doesn’t work”. EZPass works up and down the East coast. I explained that it worked twice earlier, once on a bridge and once to Enter the turnpike. He said “It doesn’t work” I am going to charge you the full cost of a lost ticket.

Now I start to lose it with him, I say “Sure, but can you give my your Name and ID number so when I write to complain about this I can be clear on what happened”, He said “Hell no, I’m not going to give you that, $15″ (the fee). I was totally taken a back by this, but as with big business, they arn’t going anywhere so why bother with customer service, and if I want to get from City to City without having to go through every small town, I have no choice but to use their service.

There needs to be some way to make these monopolied companies accountable. When they get 5 year deals to run single services they can not ignore customer service for the first 4 years and only try to be nice when up for renewal.

I think every public service run by companies like this should be forced to have at least 2 or 3 providors so we can have a choice and vote with our dollars.

Long Break

It’s been a long time since the last post, lots to put in here

Been on vacation to England, spent some time being touristy round London. I can highly recommend the London buses.

Every time I have been round London in the past I have used the Tube, while it is quick and simple it didn’t seem to go where I needed it to this trip. For £3 you can buy a ticket that runs you all day and you can see all the sights. The routes are easy, the map of the system is easy and the buses run every 5-6 minutes right though till about midnight.

On this trip I noticed the split in fashion from the US to UK. The fashion where I am in the US is all baggy non-fitting clothes. In London, especially with the women it is tighter clothes. I like the look, all the tight buts and low cut cleavege is very nice to see just wandering around town. In the evening though, some of the clothing got far more outrageous, some of it didn’t leave much to the imagination, but no one seemed to bat an eye at it. I was very happy to see it

Another observation from this trip is, for the first time since I left the country I really felt disconnected from the way of life. I really was a tourist. I didn’t quite have the right pub ettiquette, had to really think about the money and small things like that.

I was even disconnected from my family, I just didn’t fit in. They (My Mum, Dad and Brother) function as a single family unit which I just couldn’t seem to work out. Looking around it seems like a lot of families were the same way. I just seem to have made my family with my wife.

Now I am back I brought back the plague or something similar. Been sick and losing weight. According to the doc I am 15lbs lighter than I was a month ago. As a result I am trying the steel chastity belt again. It seems to fit a little looser but I don’t know if that is good or bad. I am going to try and get the wife to play some but I think she has caught what I have so that may not happen.

I have been looking at the Reinholds belt again. It is expensive with the current exchange rates, but still tempting. Where is a lottery win when you want one?